Sometimes I wonder about some people who are in relationships. Any types of relationships. A marriage. Open dating. Exclusive dating. Certain people should not be in relationships because they don't know who they are themselves. If we do not know who we are, then how do we know what we want? It's hard enough to get your own shit together, but even harder when you're in a relationship. You now have this relationship stuff getting in the way of discovering who you are. I have noticed that people who are constantly in (self-destructive, unsuccessful, pointless) relationships are people who have yet to figure themselves out. They're people that that don't know where they seem themselves in five years. They're people that are switching up jobs every 6 months. They're people with big plans and grand schemes, but end up making choices that obviously impede their way into fulfilling these dreams. Get your act together. Granted, we're allowed to make mistakes. That's what growing up is all about- making mistakes, gaining experiences. But constantly making poor, poor choices is not good. It's delusional and delusional people rarely discover who they are. Are they really ready to be in the dating world?
Regards,
James
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